those with the capacity to be full of another and hold them together do exist, and they too struggle to find someone to do the same for them. it seems like a loop where we end up with the wrong people, hoping next time will be different. eventually, it will be different and it will come to exist in exact the way we want it <3
Oh honey. I’m sorry. That does sound lonely. In the meantime… do you have friends who you can rely on to pour your emotions into? This kind of reminded me of Sex and the City, when Charlotte said to her friends, “maybe we can be each others’ soul mates?” I know that’s not the same, but… I hope you have people you can talk to 💛 because there are so many of us out there with some big feelings lately!!
those with the capacity to be full of another and hold them together do exist, and they too struggle to find someone to do the same for them. it seems like a loop where we end up with the wrong people, hoping next time will be different. eventually, it will be different and it will come to exist in exact the way we want it <3
Oh honey. I’m sorry. That does sound lonely. In the meantime… do you have friends who you can rely on to pour your emotions into? This kind of reminded me of Sex and the City, when Charlotte said to her friends, “maybe we can be each others’ soul mates?” I know that’s not the same, but… I hope you have people you can talk to 💛 because there are so many of us out there with some big feelings lately!!
Thank you for sharing 💞💞. I have been a follower of your blog(s) for 10+ years and I’m sending you big hugs 🤗
I don't know if you read Emily in Your Phone, but she also had some thoughts about dating https://emilyinyourphone.substack.com/p/friday-roundup-how-dating-has-been
Just sharing, and sorry, I don't have any words of wisdom just wanted to say I've been there. </3
Jill <3 I don't have any advice or even anything interesting to add, just want to offer a hug and solidarity.