Archive - Break Stuff To Live

Haunted By Generational Trauma

My grandmother's death meant suicide didn’t just hit our family like a random act of violence. It was a probable stalker.

Aug 7 •

March 2024

Black Hole Beast

Doesn't everyone have a name for their freeze response?

Mar 5 •

February 2024

Is It A Love Language Or A Defense For Emotional Negligence?

We may not prefer some love languages, but we should all be minimally fluent in each one.

Feb 8 •

October 2023

What Happened To The Girl Who Got Almost Everything She Wanted?

This life is everything I wished for, and something so many other people would happily trade places for. It's also really hard.

Oct 26, 2023 •

August 2023

The Summer I Stopped Pretending

The summer I stopped pretending my choices weren’t more about my fear than my character.

Aug 8, 2023 •

July 2023

May 2023

Derrick, The One Day Stand

One of my favorite stories to tell!

May 31, 2023 •

5:34

This is midlife foreplay at it’s finest.

May 27, 2023 •

Deep & Complicated & Layered

“QUEEN of the mommy bloggers” but she died without a crown

May 12, 2023 •

April 2023

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